Confronted with two contradictory truths that nevertheless exist simultaneously — Valentine’s Day is a superficial Hallmark holiday, Valentine’s Day requires decisive action on our part — we fumble around and fuck things up. Knowing this, we came up with one very good idea: asking the women we trust what they think about love, romance and February’s big holiday. They’re bright, beautiful and successful. They’re sommeliers, teachers and racecar drivers. They’re editors, photographers and athletes. These are their insights.