The Game of Love

The 9 Best Dating Apps for Finding Love on Your Phone

July 29, 2015 Buying Guides By Photo by Chase Pellerin

Love has always been a bit of a game. And now, with everyone carrying smartphones, finding love has actually become a game. That’s because most dating apps remove most of the work from online dating by drawing personal information and photos directly from Facebook, leaving the user to just look at pretty pictures and check yes or no. And if things aren’t going your way? Just shut the app down and try another one. In fact, many people use dating apps just to play the game, according to a Pew Research Center study, which found that one in three people who have used online dating have never actually gone on a date using the service. Does that mean you should swipe left on the whole thing? If watching sports has taught us anything it’s that we can take games pretty damn seriously. Do your research here and then get off the bench.



Most Influential App: Tinder set the model for most other dating apps: swipe right if you like the person; swipe left if you don’t. If both people like each other, it’s a match and a chat opens up between the two people. All users need to start is a Facebook account. It’s so successful — boasting “over 6 billion matches and counting” — because it casts a wide net. Select your preferred sex, age range and distance from you and get swiping.



Best for Cautious Daters: Hinge uses the same swiping action as Tinder, but it casts a much smaller net, targeting only friends of friends on a user’s Facebook account. The idea is to meet people who’re already in your social circle — or close to it. Also, users only have the option of swiping from a group of approximately 20 potential matches per day.



Best Overall Experience: Launched in December 2014, Bumble was designed by one of the co-founders of Tinder and uses the same swiping principles. But here’s the catch: once a match is made, only the woman can initiate the conversation. If she doesn’t say something within 24 hours, the match disappears forever. Men do have the option to extend one match per day for another 24 hours — but it’s no guarantee she’ll decide to message them.



Best for Going on Actual Dates: Instead of swiping for matches, HowAboutWe allows users to post a date idea that they’d like to go on. Prospective date candidates then see that idea, ask to go on it, and if the original idea poster accepts, the two go on that date. It’s like fishing, except with people. And because people can both post ideas and comment on other people’s ideas, users can play both the fisherman and the catch.



Best Location-Based App: Here’s an app that’s admittedly a little creepy. Happn tracks the people who “cross paths” with — meaning people who are in close proximity to one another. Those profiles then show up in a sea of photos on other users’ screens, which they can like or dislike. If two people like each other, it’s a crush and a conversation starts. So it’s basically an advanced version of Tinder that matches you with people who live, work or shop in the same places you do.

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